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Considering divorce but dreading the courtroom? Try mediation

When people think of divorce, it may conjure images of a couple going head-to-head in a courtroom before a judge. It may bring to mind worries of financial and emotional distress or feelings of resentment and shame. This does not need to be the case. Many people in Boston have avoided the "traditional" form of divorce by choosing mediation instead of litigation. Those that have mediated often find themselves much more satisfied with the outcome than those that have litigated.

Even with the likelihood that two soon-to-be former spouses can come to a better divorce agreement than a settlement mandated by a judge, many couples are still afraid to choose the route of mediation. There are a number of reasons for this. Perhaps most important is the presumption that using a mediator bars the involved parties from discussing the situation with an attorney. This is not true considering the fact that a mediator cannot provide legal advice and must remain disinterested in the case.

Alimony and Remarriage of Payor Spouse

Pursuant to M.G.L. ch. 208, section 54, if the payor spouse remarries, the income and assets of the payor's spouse shall not be considered in an action to modify alimony.  It is understandable that the Court is reluctant to impose a duty on the new spouse to contribute to the payor's alimony obligation.  However, it is important to note that if the payor's spouse significantly decreases payor's living expenses, the payor has a greater ability to pay alimony to his/her former spouse. Unfortunately, the language of the statute may hinder discovery with respect to the finances of payor's spouse, which directly relates to the ability of the payor to pay alimony to his/her former spouse; a factor still considered by the Court. 

Delaware Legalizes Gay Marriage

On Tuesday, Delaware became the 11th state to recognize a right of same-sex couples to marry, reports the  USA Today.  The state House approved the bill two weeks ago, and after lengthy debates passed by a 12-9 margin in the state Senate.  Governor Jack Markell signed the legislation into law shortly thereafter.  That it passed over the objections of its opponents  was less surprising than how quickly the legal landscape has changed for Delaware's same-sex couples.   Delaware began recognizing same-sex civil unions in 2012.  Though the civil unions provided the same rights and benefits as marriage, proponents of the marriage bill argued that creating a separate class of union compromised the respect and dignity of same-sex couples. 

Details Released of Boston Marathon Bombing Suspects' Parents' Divorce

Details from the Massachusetts divorce of Anzor Tsarnaev and Zubeidat Tsarnaeva, reported by Politico on Monday, provided little to explain how their children, Dzhokhar and Tamerlan  Tsarnaev, became involved in the tragic events at the Boston Marathon on April 15.  According to Politico, the couple filed for and was granted an uncontested divorce in the Middlesex Probate and Family Court.  Judge William McSweeney III presided over the matter. Anzor and Zubeidat declared there was neither real property nor significant other assets such as retirement plans or pensions to divide between them, agreed to a mutual waiver of alimony, and each assumed responsibility for their own health insurance. The parties represented themselves in the divorce, and declared no minor children were born of the marriage.  At the time of the divorce in 2011, Dzhokhar, the youngest child, was just over the age of 18, and Politico suggests Anzor and Zubeidat may have deliberately waited until the children were past the age of majority for ease in the process.  

Documents from NASCAR chairman's divorce have been unsealed

High asset divorces draw the attention of people in Massachusetts, simply due to the fact that a lot of money is at stake. One such case is the divorce of Brian France, the chairman of NASCAR.

Previously, the documents surrounding his divorce were sealed. This may have been due in part to the veil of secrecy that has been cast over the finances of NASCAR in the past. But now, that veil is gone due to a case filed by media outlets seeking to have the documents opened to the public. Five years after a motion requesting this was filed, the 1,500 pages of documents have been unsealed. The knowledge of the divorce and an accurate net worth of France are available to the public.

Marital Status v. Paperwork

The Huffington Post reports that the Supreme Court is deliberating whether a state can allocate proceeds from a federal employee's life insurance policy in the face of a contradictory federal beneficiary form.

Divorce Under Fault Ground

In Massachusetts, a person can file for divorce based on the fault-ground of utter desertion continued for one year. In order to be divorced on this fault-ground, you must prove to the Judge that your spouse left home voluntarily, without justification, and without the intention of returning. Additionally, you must prove that you did not consent to your spouse leaving and that your spouse has not lived with you for at least one (1) year prior to the date that the divorce complaint was filed.

What about the kids' college plans?

Many experts have said the children should be a major focus during the divorce process. While this often brings child custody matters to the forefront, it should also include what former couples are going to do about saving for college. Few couples consider this during the divorce process, even though financial experts believe it is an important time to do so. By considering these things during the split, a couple can set up a plan for future college savings.

One option couples in Suffolk, Massachusetts, have is a 529 plan. Some parents may have already been investing in such a program before the split and this means the original plan for college will have to change, like so many other things do when divorce happens. The first thing couples with a 529 plan should do is freeze the account. This is because the account can have money withdrawn from it, even if it isn't for education spending. Any such withdrawal comes with a tax penalty. By freezing the account, a parent is protecting the investment from any frivolous spending, ensuring the intended child for the account receives the full benefits.

Will "I Really Really Do" Really Stop Divorce?

The San Francisco Chronicle reports that Oklahoma's State Senate recently approved a bill that would attempt to cut the state's above-average divorce rate through so-called "covenant marriages".   The House will now consider the bill, along with other legislation aimed at cutting divorce rates by requiring spouses with children participate in an education program on the effects of divorce on children.  If passed, Oklahoma would become only the fourth state in the nation to allow "covenant marriages", behind Arkansas, Arizona and Louisiana.

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